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Am I too fat? Stop Comparing! stay young from the inside out

Adventures in living a healthy, juicy life
by Cheryl Ragsdale

This week we have young Miss Anto Patterson from Singapore. Anto shares her difficulties over finding clothes that fit her. Asian girls are built differently from Anto. They’re small and slender. In comparison, Anto feels “not skinny” and asks the question, “am I too fat?” To Anto, her body weight feels like a flaw, but – when you see her – you’ll see that it’s not.
Staying young from the inside out requires us to give up comparing ourselves to others. If you compare yourself and feel inspired to improve, that’s one thing. But, if comparing makes you unhappy, you might as well make a move to correct the situation or switch to something else to think about.
Anto’s post entitled, “Flaunt Your Flaws: My Not-So-Perfect Body Size” begins just after the following list of interesting posts designed to help you stay young from the inside out.  This post also appears on her blog hellomisspatterson.
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Welcome to the March 7, 2010 edition

staying young – from the inside out

  • ingredients for iceberg lettuce salad 300x277 Am I too fat? Stop Comparing! stay young from the inside out

    ingredients for iceberg lettuce salad photo-credit: geniuscook.com

    FitnessOver50 presents Unhealthy Salads posted at Fitness Over 50, saying, “Now there is an oxymoron! A few years ago when I first heard that salads could be unhealthy for you I just didn’t believe it. I eat salads all the time. How could a salad with all the good stuff be bad for you? It just can’t be!”

  • Benjamin Langley presents 5 Flavors of True Happiness! posted at Peaceful Prosperity, saying, “Happiness is a critical key to feeling young… forever!”

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Flaunt Your Flaws: My Not-So-Perfect Body Size

Posted by: antopatterson Sometimes, I hate that I live in Singapore. The clothes here are catered for the stick-thin Asian women who LITERALLY ARE THAT SIZE. Just look at all the Miss Singapore Universe contestants and you’d know what I mean.. miss singapore Am I too fat? Stop Comparing! stay young from the inside out

Physique of a typical Singaporean girl

1. Twig-looking arms 2. Long legs (virtually no cellulite unlike me) 3. Almost Anorexic-looking figure by global standards 4. Disadvantage: No butt, no boobs Sometimes, I can’t even buy the “Free-Size” Dresses because they are not catered to my size. It’s for the typical Singaporean girl and I end up reselling all the clothes I bought since I couldn’t try some of them on. I have the hips, I am not skinny and I HAVE THIGHS AND A BUTT. TAKE A LOOK!

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Okay…to some of you, you may think my size and the thigh look decently okay, but it is hard to get clothes. As shameless as this is gonna sound, I do look at myself in the mirror as I am changing for work and I’ve finally accepted my size.

Reasons For Accepting My Not-So- Perfect Body Size

1. Life is too short to worry about these things ladies..Yes, I have cellulite but guess what.. When I use my clothes, I fill them out nicely and I can still wear clothes that flatter me e.g A-line flowing skirts or high-waisted skirts or pants. When I use my bikini or skinny jeans or pants, you can see that I have a butt and AT LEAST if I don’t have big boobs, I have that much icon smile Am I too fat? Stop Comparing! stay young from the inside out

2. I kinda like being one of the bigger girls Whenever I see some of the skinny girls, they look so fragile like as though they were going to break any moment. Besides, not everyone wants to hold a twig to sleep right?! HAHAHAHA..

3. I got more compliments being bigger than skinnier! Yes, it’s true!! Why would I lie to you…Apparently, I got more compliments from both men and women that I looked healthier once I put on the weight. I used to be really active in secondary school. I had a really high metabolism and I dropped weight fast. From then, until the end of polytechnic, I still looked skinny and my head looked like a lollipop on my body. Once I put on the weight, I looked more proportionate. My face didn’t look so sunken in and I didn’t feel so self-conscious anymore because I ABSOLUTELY STOPPED CARING. That was the best feeling of all. _________________________________________

 

Anto recently traveled to Bangkok, Thailand. Look what we have in common! Muay Thai kick-boxing! Beautiful – just can’t get enough of excellent athletes practicing martial arts. Miss Anto is a young lady from Singapore who laments her frizzy hair and feeling chunky in a world full of really slender people. Her blog is called hellomisspatterson

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Look what I have in common with Antoinette! Muay Thai kick-boxing!

photo credit:  personal collection of hellomisspatterson

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 Am I too fat? Stop Comparing! stay young from the inside out
 Am I too fat? Stop Comparing! stay young from the inside out

About Cheryl

Cheryl has written 376 posts on this blog.

Cheryl Ragsdale trains in Mixed Martial Arts with UFC Fighter Kenny Florian and Keith Florian at Florian Martial Arts. She applies her fight training to teaching people how to handle verbal skirmishes in professional and personal relationships. When people behave badly, who do you turn to for support and guidance? Have you chosen the right people to be in your corner? Have you chosen them for the right reasons? If you’re not sure, Cheryl can help. Schedule some time to talk to her or read her ebook, "So, You Lost the First Round". Use the contact form on this blog or Twitter @thatgirlisfunny

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